Look after yourself Trev and hopefully see you at a race soon
Look after yourself Trev and hopefully see you at a race soon
Richard Taylor
"William Tell could take an apple off your head. Taylor could take out a processed pea."
Sid Waddell
Hang in there Stagger.
I am another who has never met you apart from on here. I really do wish you all the best.
Hopefully bump into you on the fells sometime.
Good news that you have moved into your new home Stagger. It's always good to have a safe, secure place while you sort out the demons. You have friends to help you if you let them. Take up a few of their offers and get up a hill (walking or running) sometime soon. The 1st step out that door is always the hardest. Good luck fella, keep the fell running faith, nature heals x
Stagger - I can identify with much of what you wrote. So much so, in fact, that I can't find words
so instead, I'll offer you a safe cyber-hug
<hug>
Eh up Stagger. Don't go quiet on us! Hope all has gone well with the move. Onwards and upwards......thats why fell running is such a good lesson in life. Keep us posted. No pressure mind!
Simon Blease
Monmouth
Thanks again for all your support.
I'm now back in the matrimonial home with my 2 son's.
The divorce nici is going through.
Just the lousy business of sorting out the financial situation.
Her advisor says 50/50, I need to look into this as it's harsh and not fair.
She has Been almost a professional runner for last 5 years.
100m, 50m + fellsman, BG, etc and all with me working full weeks.
Not happy.
Last edited by Stagger; 04-10-2016 at 12:59 PM.
Stagger, I'm pleased to hear you're back in your home. Other things will sort themselves out.
Can I give you one piece of advice, learned from my own painful experience? Assuming you have enough money to make ends meet, take the 50/50 and move on. You can spend a lot of time, effort, stress and solicitor's fees trying to get something different and it really isn't worth it. The most important thing is to get your life back on track and moving forwards. Take the deal, don't ever regret it and don't ever think "what if".
Cheers mr1470, I understand what you say but I have always been a battler.
I'm going to see what we can agree to, which would be my preferred solution although if battle ensues I will be like rocky.
Thats an interesting reply Stagger. One should never offer advice to someone you don't know but looking at it from, lets say, a generic standpoint, the fall back position of a 'battler' might not be the most effective way through this. That creates its own stresses. These can be constructive or destructive. Only you can judge which. All I will say is that Mr1470 offers sage advice. Walk away from pain with peace in your heart and mind.
Simon Blease
Monmouth
Thanks fellas.
I understand what your saying.
Hopefully all parties will see sense before the solicitors have a feeding frenzy.