This is so lovely too Freckle. Love is a strange old thing. I definitely agree about the projection thing and have fallen foul of that in a number of past relationships but am currently totally bewildered by a love at first sight connection that keeps on astounding especially since neither parties were looking for or wanted a relationship and both of were fearful of getting involved but compelled to do so anyway. It defies belief and continues to amaze. Hope neither wakes up!