Nice one Alan B I think you know me well enough to know what my 'feck off' means? It was just a very knee jerk reaction to someone elses brazenness. I am not very ladylike, I never intend to be, or aspire to be.
It's all about give and take and as many proven participants have mentioned, it's about respect for everyone...I had a walker aghast at me coming down to the track before the road at Edale telling me not to hold the gate for her...of course I will, she has just as much right to use the land around her, as I do.
What Splatcher has mentioned is my sentiment exactly, I've had some top (bloke) runners finish with me that should be way ahead, but they have held back and stuck with me until the finish, but with map in hand and contributing in some way, navigationally or just moral support. And like I've mentioned, I have made some great friends that way that I've had some great days on the hill...these are the kind of people you want on big hill challenges, they have a big grasp of the bigger picture, and we all keep each other safe.
It's a hard balance - ultras are often draw a wider range of participants - traily stuff or fell - the traily folk tend to expect marked courses, the fell guys generally tend to deal with the nav better.
I think from the 'fell' point of view, what others have mentioned, including myself - it is a sense of responsibility for yourself (and in turn the others around you) that is the way it should be.