There’s differing opinions on this one.
I feel torn and stuck between a rock and a hard place!!
My bestest pal at work (H) sits opposite me and is on holiday in France until September the 4th. Her boss, (sits diagonal to me) handed in his notice yesterday. He leaves in a month. (so only a fortnight after she gets back) He’s not telling H until she gets back in the country as he wants her to enjoy the time away. She had no idea he had accepted a job offer before she went or even that he’d had an interview. She will want to apply for his job when it is advertised and also be in a panic about him going no doubt.
The issues I have are these
Will she be pi55ed off with me as her friend for not telling her what’s going on (given we are texting etc while she is away so are in regular contact)
Is it better for her to find out NOW whilst on holiday with all her family (Hubbie is French and they are staying with the massive extended family) so that she can have lots of chats with them and they can reassure her of any concerns etc
Is it better for her to enjoy her holiday blissfully unaware as to what is going on to come back and get thrown straight back into it.
My boss reckons I should say nothing, let her enjoy her holiday and come back to be told by her boss directly.
I’ve considered talking to her boss myself and saying I think it would be better to break the news sooner rather than later but seem to be in a minority about this. I just think I’d like to know but don’t know what to do? If I tell her and it ruins the holiday I’ll be gutted, if I don’t and she tells me off for saying nothing I’ll be gutted too! Do I respect her boss’s wishes and say nothing or go with what I think I should do as a friend???
Maybe I should just run away and go on holiday too?!