I hope emmi is going to tell us her decision
I actually think neither is wrong
If I was on the horns of this dilemma, my decision would be to phone her as soon as she was back from hols, not whilst she was away.
Em
I think you need to tell her now, on the grounds she is the only person you have not told who does not seem to know.
Well?
errr....well I waited until she got back to England then she rang me to tell me she was in London at an interview the moral dilemma trebled then! So I asked her if she'd spoken to her boss yet, she said 'why' blah de blah de blah then well kind of guessed, I suspect by my umming and ahhing.
Anyway, she only went and got the flippin job so as well as her boss going she is too and I'm really sad and dreading the day she goes...only 2 weeks and counting