Was going to respect your wishes Daz, but Wheeze and NB are right.
Your a true character and a top bloke, and those that have passed away would appreciate you thinking of them and want you to crack on and enjoy life.
So have a great birthday mate.
25th June 2010 BG for me, chosen charity help4heroes, was going to choose a kids charity but reckon there's enough kids that have lost dad's to war and having served time in the forces myself it seems the right choice. 24 hours of pain and suffering's not a lot to go through compared to what our lads and lasses go through in times of war.
Happy Birthday Daz, enjoy life while its here