If I walked into your house, said "My granddad lived in this house years ago and I've had a rough time so I want it back, then gave you the conservatory would you be happy?

Nope

Then imagine, I actually took the back garden gate off you so you couldn't get out and filtered your post through to you slowly and rationed your tesco home delivery to you at a level where you were just about getting by but not well- would you not be throwing your shit at me by that point?