Postives on divorce? er... no.... it's awful. Like having your arm pulled off - without anaesthetic - and then you keep wondering why you can't hold a knife and fork any more.

Not what you want to hear, I'm sure, but that's my experience. Others, no doubt, will be more helpful. Although, perhaps, my contribution might also be helpful in that, as awful as it was (and it was), I survived. I'm still here. and I even manage to run sometimes.