
Originally Posted by
millipede
That's the whole point isn't it. That HP was making, and no one was prepared to consider.
I understand that everyone JUMPED to slam HP because they know Merrylegs (either in real life or because they have talked to him for so long on here). They know that he is a great guy who isn't homophobic, wouldn't knowingly upset someone and is often the peace maker on the forum. I agree with all these opinions.
But Henry P might not have been reading the forum so long and not have such insight.
He rationally said that comments about gay men and tons of vaseline and not stooping down around certain men in showers are very old hat
.................and to an objective gay man reading the forum (young or not) could be taken as insulting and excluding.
I think the reactions of everyone else who contributed (towards HP) were even more excluding.