You are quite right. It is a delicate balance isn't it. You see some people who appear so chipper all the time, that you know they just must explode now and again in private. But whingers are wearing. I've struggled over the years to get the balance right, but I'm slowly getting there. A good winge can be healthy now and again.It is a case of just sharing it with the right person sometimes.
Am Yisrael Chai
Poacher turned game-keeper