I've had a look - I assume it's "Self-defining memory question (Singer & Blagrov, 2004)" and I can see where you are coming from.

It isn't framed as a question - perhaps that is intentional - I wouldn't know - it seems to be inviting us to bring up a memory and put our thoughts down.

Maybe it is deliberately set to leave it open to the participant to respond freely, where a more clearly framed question might offer direction.

I don't want to ask, because I'm just putting it out there for her and am being very passive in doing so.

I appreciate all your support.